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Two Weeks in Oxford, England! | Personal Updates
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Two Weeks in Oxford, England! | Personal Updates

January 20, 2021

Well, we’ve made it to the two week mark in England! What a blessing.

Personal Updates

I’d like to do a series of posts that just simply keep you updated about all the changes and experiences of moving to a new place. This is the first post of the series! These posts will NOT be categorized or focused on a specific topic. Rather, I will just write about whatever we are learning and experiencing as we go about this new adventure. AND, these posts will most likely have the most pictures!

Why do posts like these? Well, with all the censorship that has happened in social media lately, I want to make sure that I have a place to keep you all informed with pictures, thoughts, and new experiences. So, a lot of what I used to only post to Instagram, will be captured in these posts here on my blog. And, I also find myself using social media too much in general these days, so I want to cut back.

I’m not sure how often I’ll have time to sit down and write out a post like this, but my goal is once a month for these personal updates! I love sharing what God is doing in our lives with you all and I’m so thankful for this community to learn and grow together.

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    Okay, here’s the first post!

    We Got Outside!

    Now that we’ve completed our self-isolation period (because of travel), we can go outside! Walking around our neighborhood and near the river has been wonderful. There is really a lot to see and all the houses/churches/buildings are just beautiful!

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    I also took an hour-long walk with Aletheia down along the river where we saw many geese, a pair of swans, and lots of houseboats. The fresh air felt so good.

    We also drove around the city quite a bit to find the grocery store and go to church. As we were driving I couldn’t help but love all the little row houses, the cobblestone streets, the old churches/schools, and the stone walls. Everywhere I turned looked like something from a story book!

    Changes

    There were a few moments of stress in these last two weeks. When I walked into the grocery store for the first time and tried to find everything on my list I had a moment of “Ah! This is so much work!” But that is to be expected!

    I remember in those last days in California that I would drive around and think it was all so easy… I knew where Whole Foods was, I knew where each item was that I needed, and I didn’t have to use my phone to get there. Now I remind myself that soon it will all feel normal here too and the first time is always hardest. I know that in a few weeks it will feel normal to go to the store here, I’ll know where things are, I’ll be able to easily convert pounds to dollars in my head, and I won’t be stressed about it.

    But this moment did give me another chance to trust God in my circumstances. For trusting in a small circumstance like this, helps me to trust when the really tough times come. The Bible says to cast ALL our cares on Him for He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). And, even this small care of being stressed in the grocery store should be cast on Him.

    I was thankful to find the “American Specials” section of the grocery store. Although, it was filled with candies, marshmallows, and soda. All of which I would not buy or eat anyway, ha!

    Weather

    The weather here is SO different than California! We went from the desert to green everywhere. But, so far, I’m not complaining.

    Yes, it’s been cold. One of the first items we purchased after we got here was a little space heater. It has been a life-saver. Especially when we were up at 2AM with jet-lag and our radiators were shut off (they are on timers to go off at night here). We also got a heating pad, which helps too!

    But, even with the cold, it hasn’t been unbearable. I actually loved feeling the rain and the cool breeze when I walked out of the grocery store (maybe because I was sweating from all the stress inside!).

    I’m so thankful for a piece of advice that I read a long time ago… it will be my reminder on cold, rainy days here.

    There’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothes.

    And I have found that very true! Before moving here, I invested in plenty of sweaters, waterproof boots, and warm leggings/socks and I have been using them all! Layering up really helps. One day soon, I will share my entire wardrobe with you. Because not only is it warm, but it was really fun to put it together and I simply didn’t have time to share about that whole process before our move.

    I was able to wear my sunglasses yesterday as the sun peaked out through the clouds for about an hour. So, I am glad I brought them along. (They were part of my daily outfit in Sunny SoCal!)

    Conclusion

    If you made it this far, you’re a champ. Thanks for joining us on this great adventure in England!

    What else would you like to know about our move and first weeks here? Let me know in the comments and I will include it in a future post.

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      My day was full of nursing, diapering, scrubbing, My day was full of nursing, diapering, scrubbing, vacuuming, mopping, and home-schooling. Just as I was beginning to feel weary of all I had to do, I took a minute to cut some daisies from my garden and bring them inside. That small touch of beauty brought me joy. When we create beauty we reflect our Creator. And doing that today really turned my disposition around. ❤️ So next time you feel harried from your responsibilities as a mom, take a moment to make something beautiful. Maybe it will make you feel better too.

Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, "He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in their hearts, yet so that man will not find out the work which God has done from the beginning even to the end."
      It's an ongoing project. 😅 But that's why Jesu It's an ongoing project. 😅  But that's why Jesus said, "Come to me, you who are weary." We don't have to fix our lives or ourselves before coming to God. He's ready to clean us up for Himself and His glory. 💕
      God's promise to help me. ❤️ Hebrews 13:5 says God's promise to help me. ❤️ Hebrews 13:5 says that God is our helper. He knows what I'm dealing with each and every moment and He's there for me in each one. A few minutes after this moment of tension, the baby quieted down and went to sleep. Then we passed by honeysuckle that Aletheia pointed out and we got to breathe in the sweet smell. What a change in just a few short moments. 💕
      Our bassinet stroller has made this holiday so eas Our bassinet stroller has made this holiday so easy! We have the Baby Jogger City Mini GT with the detachable bassinet. It clips into place and I can push him anywhere. If he's asleep when we get back? No problem, I just detach it and set it close by. When it's time for bed I lay him inside and then carry it upstairs to my room when I'm ready to sleep. I have changed out the mat a few times when it gets covered in drool so that it's nice and dry for him to sleep in. I was a bit intimidated to travel with a baby so small, but so far it has been a dream. 😍 What's your #1 tip for traveling with a baby???
      Psalm 119 is the longest chapter of the Bible at 1 Psalm 119 is the longest chapter of the Bible at 176 verses! It is full of acrostic sections, one for each letter of the Hebrew aleph bet. 😉 The Psalmist goes on verse-by-verse about how much He loves God's laws. And you'd think after writing about how much God's Word has helped him and how he cherishes it for 175 verses that he's got his life figured out; he knows how to be a Christian. Well, here's what the final verse says, "I have gone astray like a lost sheep, seek your servant, for I do not forget your commandments." What?! He is still lost and needs God's help. And, friend, that is also our story. No matter how much Bible study we do, we will always need more. How gracious of God to continue sanctifying us through His Word each and every day. ❤️📖

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      I spent a lot of my life on tropical islands so I I spent a lot of my life on tropical islands so I am a summer girl through and through. Starbucks can keep their pumpkin spice latte for all I care (there's too much sugar in it for me anyway! 🤣). But deeper than my own preference of the season, I am learning to lay my preferences aside and try to enjoy and grow in each season I am in. Whether it's the spring, summer, autumn, or winter ... Whether it's hard seasons of motherhood like toddler tantrums, difficulty with mom friends, or disagreements with hubby on how to parent... God mercifully uses all those changes and seasons to mold and shape me to be more like Christ. He's masterfully directing my little life to bring Him glory and most of the time I feel like I'm just along for the ride! What are you learning in this season of your life? And, are you a pumpkin spice latte person or no? 😉

Ecclesiastes 3:1 "To everything there is a season."

Romans 8:28 "God works all things together for good to those who love Him."

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      This video sums up my life lately. And the caption This video sums up my life lately. And the caption sums up my feelings about it. ❤️ soak up those precious moments with your kids, mamas! They go by quickly.
      Rainy mornings are not my favorite... They usually Rainy mornings are not my favorite... They usually make me feel like doing nothing! But I've realized that if I get up and out of the house, even for just a short walk, my outlook changes for the better. How kind of God to give us such simple joys like scooter rides, river paths, and wispy willows over canals. And even kinder to use them to strengthen and lift our spirits when we are down. 💕

1 The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork.  2 Day to day pours out speech, and night to night reveals knowledge.  3 There is no speech, nor are there words, whose voice is not heard.  4 Their voice goes out through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world. (Psalm 19:1-4, ESV)
      1. Make your own salad dressing! 🥗 It's serious 1. Make your own salad dressing! 🥗 It's seriously so simple! Here's a quick recipe:

1 tablespoon olive oil
1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
1 teaspoon honey
Pinch of salt
A few twists of freshly cracked pepper

Twizzle it up, adjust to taste, and pour over salad!

Not only is it easy, but it keeps those nasty, seed-oil filled dressings from the store out of your kitchen. 

And my next hack is even better, 2: use a frother for your homemade salad dressing! I did this one day when I was in a hurry and I've never looked back. 😎

What's your #1 kitchen hack? Leave it in a comment!

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      With all the NEW things that you need to do with a With all the NEW things that you need to do with a newborn, there are 3 things that I've actually STOPPED doing... Maybe you should too!

1. Washing the dishes at night. 🧼
Guess what, they will be there in the morning! I come to the end of the long day and am so tired. Pushing myself to stay up and wash the dishes is not the right choice in this season. So I leave them to be, shower, and go to bed.

2. Listening to podcasts. 🎧
I used to keep up with so many podcasts! But since I've had my baby (and, tbh, even a few months before 😅) I haven't listened to any podcasts. We constantly have input into our brains with social media and the internet. My mind just needs a break! It has helped me focus more on the tasks at hand and being available for my daughter's many questions.

3. Trying to catch up on my Bible reading plan. 📖
Bible reading plans are my bread and butter; they help me get my reading done every day. But I do sometimes still miss a day here or there. I used to always just double up one day and play catch up so that I can stay on track. Well, I've stopped doing that. Now if I miss a day or many days I just read what's on the plan for today. That way I'm still reading and not overwhelmed with a large chunk that I can't get thru.

Evaluating what I do each and every day has become a wonderful practice for me. I'm thankful to God for helping me see what I can handle right now and what I can't. And then cutting out those things that are too much. Homemaking, motherhood, and life in general is a constant balancing and honing. Rest in God's direction as you make changes and grow.

So what are you going to stop doing today? 💕
      ​ I was so worried about how the age gap in my ​

I was so worried about how the age gap in my children would affect their relationship. Would the 5-year gap make it more difficult? Maybe my daughter would be annoyed with a little baby because she's older. Would she get jealous because most of my time will need to go to the newborn and not her? Will it be hard to manage having a newborn and occupying a 5-year-old at the same time?

Well, I'm now almost 3 months into this mother-of-two journey and I can say that I shouldn't have worried one bit.

If she's not cuddling him, she's doing a craft right next to him, she can't get enough of her little brother. But I can't blame her, he is just so cute!

In my head, I always pictured myself having children close together. So to have a gap of 5 years feels strange! But it just goes to show the truth of one of my favorite Proverbs: "Man plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps." (Proverbs 16:9).

What I thought would be the best thing for me as a mom is not what God has planned. But that's good! It's made me trust Him and His timing even more. 💕

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      This has to be different for each person. For me, This has to be different for each person. For me, I find resting well to be MUCH more difficult than working hard. Especially since I've had my baby, every spare minute goes to a chore or task. A friend reminded me on Sunday that all the housework will be there later and that I need to rest more often. I took that to heart and left my kitchen a mess that night instead of cleaning up before bed. And now I'm looking for even more ways to rest as I navigate life with two children. 💕

What about you? Are you more prone to work hard or rest well? Let me know in a comment! 👇
      I love finding a single verse to hold onto during I love finding a single verse to hold onto during the day. Whether it's from my Bible reading or just one I've known for a while. But when I get to read the whole chapter or book for that verse I am even more encouraged by the immediate context of the passage. 

I've known Romans 5:8 for a long time (20+ years!). But reading the whole chapter this morning really put it into a better perspective for me. What do you think?

1 Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.  2 Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God.  3 Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance,  4 and endurance produces character, and character produces hope,  5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.  6 For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.  7 For one will scarcely die for a righteous person-though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die-  8 but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.  9 Since, therefore, we have now been justified by his blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God.  10 For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life.  11 More than that, we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.  12 Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned-  13 for sin indeed was in the world before the law was given, but sin is not counted where there is no law.  14 Yet death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those whose sinning was not like the transgression of Adam, who was a type of the one who was to come... (Last verses in comments!)
      Often we look to our Bible reading to turn our day Often we look to our Bible reading to turn our day around or give us some nugget of spiritual insight that will change our lives. It's not wrong to look for those things, but if you read and they don't happen know that that's okay too. Coming back to the Bible day after day no matter what is the important habit to form. 

So go read yours today! 💕

For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Hebrews 4:12

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      ...Because I do it too now! 😅 though I don't al ...Because I do it too now! 😅 though I don't always recommend this practice, I'm learning to sometimes just let the dishes, laundry, and vacuuming be. Trying to do everything at once will result in lots of jobs half done. So making loving and guiding the children THE job for now. 💕

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NASB)
"These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk on the road, and when you lie down, and when you rise up."
      My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the str My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26.

Literally the verb is simply fail, not “may fail.” This God-besotted psalmist, Asaph, says, “My flesh and my heart fail!” I am despondent! I am discouraged! But then immediately he fires a broadside against his despondency: “But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”

The psalmist does not yield to discouragement. He battles unbelief with counterattack. 

In essence, he says, “In myself I feel very weak and helpless and unable to cope. My body is shot, and my heart is almost dead. But whatever the reason for this despondency, I will not yield. I will trust God and not myself. He is my strength and my portion.” 

The Bible is replete with instances of saints struggling with sunken spirits. Psalm 19:7 says, “The law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul.” This is a clear admission that the soul of the saint sometimes needs to be revived. And if it needs to be revived, in a sense it was “dead.” That’s the way it felt.

David says the same thing in Psalm 23:2–3, “He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul.” The soul of the “man after [God’s] own heart” (1 Samuel 13:14) needs to be restored. It was dying of thirst and ready to fall exhausted, but God led the soul to water and gave it life again. 

God has put these testimonies in the Bible so that we might use them to fight the unbelief of despondency. And we fight with the blast of faith in God’s promises: “God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” We preach that to ourselves. And we thrust it into Satan’s face. And we believe it. -- John Piper, Future Grace, 303-304
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      Besides church on Sundays, most of my days lately Besides church on Sundays, most of my days lately have been spent at home with my 7-week-old. Today we went out to the city centre to see one of my favorite views: the hydrangeas at Magdalen College. 🥹 Wow, were they worth the effort! ❤️
      Being a new mom over again has filled my heart wit Being a new mom over again has filled my heart with an overwhelming sense of joy and gratitude, and I can't help but thank God for all the little things that make this postpartum season so special.

The tiny fingers that grip my own, the sweet coos that fill the air, the little bit of hair on the back of his neck, the way he glances up while he's nursing... All these little things are little blessings. It's not all rosy, but it's not lost on me how special it is to have a little baby in my arms day in and day out. 🤱

James 1:17 says, "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no shadow of turning."

every precious moment, every little joy, and every blessing in this postpartum season comes directly from the loving hand of our Heavenly Father. His gifts are perfect and I don't want to forget these small ones. 💕

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      As I'm coming into the 5th week of postpartum, her As I'm coming into the 5th week of postpartum, here are my top 4 Postpartum Tips for you!

1. Listen to your body 👂. Remember that you just gave birth and will need time to gain your strength! If you feel like resting all day and can do it, do it. If you feel like going for a walk, go. 

2. Let the chores go 🧹. I mean, do what you can/really need to, but don't stress about getting the chores done right away. Ask for help and leave what you can undone.

3. Drink water! 💦 Your hormones have been on a trip and still are during the postpartum period. So you need to flush your system with water! Especially if you're breastfeeding, you need to drink more water. I aim for 3L per day and it's a bonus if I remember to put a pinch of salt in too!

4. Read your Bible or a devotional on your phone. 📲 Normally I wouldn't give this advice, but when you have a baby in your arms most of the day, you need to find a way to stay in the Bible. And your phone might just be your best bet at this point. I always have the Grace to You Bible app on my phone for Bible reading. And then I keep Spurgeon's Morning and Evening devotional (it's excerpts from his sermons) on my phone as well. That way I always have something to read when sitting so much and nursing!

I have been so thankful for the special weeks right after birth this time around. Here's to finding more ways to treasure it! 💕
      June was fast and full. ❤️ June was fast and full. ❤️
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      • Cyndy Gustafson says:
        January 22, 2021 at 12:47 am

        Thank you for your open thoughts and comments. Very refreshing these days. Are you able to walk to most places or drive? Do they have driver licenses and how is driving on the left side instead of the right? I imagine costs are higher there too?
        Blessings on your adventures!

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        • Deborah says:
          January 21, 2021 at 10:58 pm

          Hi! We have been able to drive most places, although there is a lot within walking distance. My husband has done all of the driving! But he does it very well. The costs here may be a bit higher than the US, but they are about the same as where we lived in LA. 🙂 Thanks for reading!

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