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Ep. 16 Snakes, Deception, and Clothing | Genesis 3:1-7 | Book by Book
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Ep. 16 Snakes, Deception, and Clothing | Genesis 3:1-7 | Book by Book

June 1, 2022

Hey there, today on Naptime Theology we are continuing in our series of Bible study through the book of Genesis with chapter 3, verses 1-7. We are going to cover three things: Snakes, Deception, and Loincloths.. Sounds like an interesting mix, right? Let’s find out together!

Well, John Calvin opens his commentary on Genesis 3 like this: “In this chapter, Moses explains, that man, after he had been deceived by Satan, revolted from his Maker, became entirely changed, and so degenerate, that the image of God, in which he had been formed, was obliterated. He then declares that the whole world, which had been created for the sake of man, fell together with him from its primary original; and that, in this way, much of its native excellence was destroyed.”

We will not get to unpack all of that quote today since that would take a long time. But we will go through the first seven verses of this chapter and talk about three things: snakes, deception, and loincloths. 

First, I’m going to read through the passage so that we know what we’re talking about. I’m reading from the New American Standard Version. Here is Genesis 3:1-7:

Now the serpent was more crafter than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said to the woman, “Indeed, has God said, ‘You shall not eat from any tree of the garden’?”
The woman said to the serpent, “From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat;
But from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat from it or touch it, or you will die.’”
The serpent said to the woman, “You surely will not die!
For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.
Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loin covering.

Why does Satan use the Serpent?

The first character mentioned in this passage is none other than the serpent. The text says, “Now the serpent was more crafty than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made.

Maybe this seems like a small question, but I had never thought about this before. Why did Satan use the serpent instead of any other animal that God had created? The Bible clearly states that the snake or serpent was already cunning and crafty on its own, that’s how God made it.

In John Calvin’s commentary on this verse, he points out that Jesus actually tells the disciples to be “prudent as serpents” in Matthew 10:16. So, we shouldn’t read this first verse of chapter 3 with a negative tone. Rather, Moses is highlighting an aspect of God’s creation in describing the serpent or snake as crafty. And even though it’s Satan who is using the snake in this passage, remember that Moses is actually pretty familiar with God using snakes for His own purposes. We have the first reference to this later in this chapter to God sending someone to “crush the head” of the serpent in Genesis 3:15.

Why Does God Use Serpents?

Then in Moses’ personal life God used snakes as well. In Exodus 4 Moses’ staff is turned into a snake to show God’s power to Pharaoh. Then, in Numbers 21, snakes attack the Israelites in judgment from God and Moses is told to make the bronze snake that’s lifted up and when the people look to the bronze snake, they are healed. So, Moses knew from personal experience what snakes were like and it makes sense for him to include this note at the beginning of Genesis 3 about snakes being crafty. 

This shows us an important truth: Satan is constantly taking something God made and twisting it for evil. The qualities God had given to the snake were twisted to make it into a force for evil. Satan does this with all sin and lies that he tells. 

The fact that he has to twist things shows us right away that Satan is not God. He cannot create things from nothing or even come up with his own material. He has only the power to twist and damage what God has already created. One of my college professors said that when Satan later talks with Eve through the serpent he “sells a demotion as a promotion [to Eve]. What [Satan] says is not totally wrong, he just twists it.” This should be a comfort to us. It tells us that God is ruler and sovereign over the universe, not Satan. And God is ruler even over Satan, for Satan cannot do what God has done or what God does now. Satan is not like God who can do whatever He pleases as Psalm 115, verse 3 says. That means that whatever happens in our lives is in God’s control, it’s part of His plan and we have no need to worry or wonder if Satan is doing something God doesn’t know about. He knows and He is sovereign over it.

That bronze serpent that Moses made is actually in the Bible two more times, once during the time of the kings and it’s referred to in the New Testament by John. In 2 Kings 18, Hezekiah has just come onto the throne as king of Judah and it says in verse 4 that “he removed the high places and broke down the sacred pillars and cut down the Asherah. He also broke in pieces the bronze serpent that Moses had made, for until those days the sons of Israel burned incense to it; and it was called Nehushtan.” So the Israelites apparently saved the bronze snake that Moses had made and started worshiping it alongside the other gods they made. Of course it wasn’t the bronze snake itself that saved the people from the fiery serpents’ bites in the wilderness, it was God. 

But Jesus, God Himself, refers to this picture of Moses lifting up the snake in the wilderness when He is speaking with Nicodmeus in John chapter 3. In fact, the most famous verse in the world, John 3:16, immediately follows verses about snakes! John 3, verses 14 and 15 say, “As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up; so that whoever believes will in Him have eternal life.” Jesus crushed the head of the serpent and healed His people from sin by being lifted up on the cross to die just as the serpent was lifted up in the wilderness to heal the Israelites. Wow!

Finally from Revelation 12:9 we know that God will ultimately keep His promise from Genesis 3:15 by crushing the serpent, Satan, forever. John is describing his vision from the Lord and he says, “And the great dragon was thrown down, the serpent of old who is called the devil and Satan, who deceives the whole world…” Then Satan’s final doom is in Revelation 20 verse 10, which says, “And the devil who deceived them was thrown into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are also; and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever.”

Do you see how God redeems the evil that Satan does through the snake? God can use whatever He wills for His purposes, both in our personal lives and in the redemption of the whole world. Satan merely twists the things that God has made and done.

As we move on in this chapter, we see that Satan also twists the good things that God has said.

Eve’s Conversation with the Serpent: “Did God Really Say?”

The next few verses of this chapter cover the conversation that Eve had with the serpent. And it is in her conversation with the serpent that Eve is deceived and convinced to eat the fruit that she was commanded not to eat. Here’s how it went from verses 1 through 5:

And he [the serpent] said to the woman, “Indeed, has God said, ‘You shall not eat from any tree of the garden’?”
The woman said to the serpent, “From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat;
But from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat from it or touch it, or you will die.’”
The serpent said to the woman, “You surely will not die!
For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

Let’s first establish something important in this conversation, Adam says nothing! Now, you may think that Eve was just here in the garden all alone chatting with the serpent. But that’s not actually the case. The Hebrew word for “you” in this conversation actually means “you all.” The serpent was not only addressing Eve, but also addressing her husband, Adam. We also know this from the verse following the conversation which says that her husband was with her. He was there the whole time! This is also how Paul can say in Romans 5:12 that sin came through Adam and not Eve. Adam was there with her and did not lead her in righteousness or really lead her at all, she was deceived and then they both sinned.

Now we can learn a lot from Eve’s conversation with the serpent. First of note is that the serpent knew to go through Eve to get to her husband. That in and of itself is an important lesson for wives.

We know from the later consequences of her sin that Eve is told that her “desire will be for her husband, and he will rule over her.” That’s in Genesis 3, verse 16. It means that because of sin there will be strife between husbands and wives. The wife will long for more control and have to submit herself in Christ first and then to her husband. And remember that Satan is still the crafty serpent today that he was then. Isn’t that fallenness of the wife and the longing for control the perfect opportunity for Satan to come in to twist and deceive further? So, wives, we have an important role to play in preventing Satan getting through to our husbands via us. Don’t be easily deceived by Satan’s lies. Lies that tempt you to think Satan’s ways are the good ways and God’s are not.

That’s exactly what the serpent did with Eve. He first just gave her a hint by planting that seed of doubt: “Did God really say you shall not eat from any tree of the garden?” That’s exactly what the serpent does with us today. “Did God really say you have to put others before yourself or is a little more ‘me time’ exactly what you need?” “Did God really say you have to submit yourself to your husband even when you don’t feel like it?” “Did God really say you need to discipline your children with humility and kindness or is your raised voice understandable because you’re upset?” 

All it took was that one little question for Eve’s heart to decline from faith, as Calvin puts it. Actually, let me read you the entire quote. Calvin is describing the fall and how that small seed of doubt planted by the serpent grew into sin. He says, “Eve could previously behold the tree with such sincerity, that no desire to eat of it affected her mind; for the faith she had in the word of God was the best guardian of her heart, and of all her senses. But now, after the heart had declined from faith, and from obedience to the word, she corrupted both herself and all her senses, and depravity was diffused through all parts of her soul as well as her body. It is, therefore, a sign of impious defection, that the woman now judges the tree to be good for food, eagerly delights herself in beholding it, and persuades herself that it is desirable for the sake of acquiring wisdom; whereas before she had passed by it a hundred times with an unmoved and tranquil look.”

Eve went quickly from looking at the tree without a second thought, to desiring it for herself. We see that in her first response where she has already changed what God originally told them not to do in chapter 2. She added that they were not to touch the tree, God never said anything about touching the tree. Do you see how quickly we can be deceived into thinking that God’s ways are not best? 

One of my daughter’s Bible books describes God’s command to not eat the fruit as “good words for Adam and Eve to obey.” I love that description because it is so true and so helpful for our own lives. God has given us “good words to obey” just as He gave to Adam and Eve. Most of our good words from God can be found in the New Testament. Words like the one anothers: Love one another, care for one another, esteem others higher than yourself, be devoted to one another. And words like the direct commands to rejoice, pray, walk worthy, throw out sin, and live our lives for Christ. How quickly we turn from these things at the slightest opportunity. We can be easily deceived like Eve, so we must hold on tightly to God’s good words for us. Know them, practice them, and have faith in them. Then we will stand firm in God’s power when we are tempted. I’m sure this is why Paul tells us to comfort each other with these words in 1 Thessalonians 4:18. He knew that one little seed of doubt planted by Satan could grow into massive sin.

But Satan didn’t stop with one question to Eve. He went on. He told Eve that she would be like God if she were to eat the fruit, knowing good and evil. Part of that is actually true, she would know good and evil. But she would not become God. Again, we learn more about how Satan works from this verse. He tells us half-truths that sound good, and we believe them, falling deeper into sin.

Sin Enters the World

Then comes verse 6, perhaps the saddest verse in the whole Bible. It says, “When the woman saw that the tree was food for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.”

Satan’s deception worked. He convinced Adam and Eve to disobey God’s good words and they ate the fruit. This brought sin into the human heart for the first time and since then every human being has been filled with sin from birth. David tells us this in Psalm 51, verse 5 which says, “Behold I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin my mother conceived me.” And Paul tells us this plainly in Romans 5:12: “Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned.” But Paul doesn’t leave us there, he points us to the One, the man who came to reverse the fall into sin: Jesus. Romans 5:18-19 says, “So then as through one transgression there resulted in condemnation to all men, even so through one act of righteousness there resulted justification of life to all men. For as through the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, even so through the obedience of the One the many will be made righteous.”

Their Eyes Were Opened, They Needed Clothes!

Immediately following their act of eating the fruit, of disobeying God, Adam and Eve’s lives changed forever. We see this clearly in the next verse. Genesis 3, verse 7 says, “Then the eyes of both of them were opened and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loin coverings.” They went from living in the garden together as husband and wife unashamed, to living in the garden as husband and wife full of shame. They could not be in front of their most loved one without some sort of covering. 

And their covering they made was not at all sufficient as we will see later in this chapter. Have you ever tried to make a skirt out of leaves? They’re flimsy, they rip apart, and they get dry, crackled, and crumbled after a while. This was not a sufficient covering for their bodies. But their thinking is not far from ours. Don’t we also try to cover up our sins before the Lord? We try to hide under the flimsy leaves, convincing ourselves that we are covered and the Lord can’t see. But He can, He knows our sin and He’s already taken care of it in Jesus. We have no reason to hide and should instead run to Him when we’ve done wrong, He’s ready to forgive us because Jesus has already paid for all our sin. 

But Adam and Eve immediately covering themselves also teaches us about our own need for clothing. Every human being now knows right and wrong, that’s what Paul says in Romans 2:15. And, like Adam and Eve, we want to cover our own nakedness before God and before others. Now it may not seem like that is the truth in culture today, you don’t have to look far to find immodesty in abundance. But that is an outworking of what Paul says in Romans 1:18, that unbelievers suppress the truth that is inside of them. Our culture has suppressed modesty and allowed Satan to twist God’s narrative into something evil. If you’d like to hear more about God’s narrative for modesty from the Scriptures, listen to the next episode of the podcast where I dig into that fully. But in a nutshell, we see the effects of the fall all around us, most directly we see it in Adam and Eve needing to cover their own nakedness.

Well, that brings us to the end of this passage for today’s episode. We will leave Adam and Eve here in the garden with their leafy clothing and come back to find them just as God does on the next Genesis episode in the podcast. 

We’ve learned a lot, at least I have, about not being deceived by Satan’s twisted tactics in the section of Scripture and I pray that each of you women listening will not be deceived by his words but will instead follow God’s good words that He’s given us to obey.

Thanks for listening to Naptime Theologian, a transcript of this podcast is available at NaptimeTheologian.com along with other resources and Christian encouragement for moms and women who want to know more about the God of the Bible. Have a great day!

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    We are called to know and love the Scriptures that We are called to know and love the Scriptures that God has given us. The most meaningful example of this for me is what David wrote in Psalm 119. That Psalm is 176 verses of praises and benefits of knowing the Scriptures. David loved them! And how can we come to know and love the Scriptures like that without reading them on a regular basis?

And when we look to the New Testament, Jesus constantly quoted Scripture, elevating it to a high place and showing us that we need to know it as well. And then in the epistles we are encouraged to encourage one another with Scripture and Psalms. How can we do all of this if we aren’t reading the Bible every day? So it is clear that we need to be immersed in the Words of Scripture. They are truly the Words of life because they come directly from God and we need them to live each day of our lives here on earth.

To help you read the Bible this summer, I've put together the Psalms of the Summer 2023 Bible Reading plan. 🎉  This plan will take you through the book of Psalms 3 times throughout this summer. Once in June, once in July, and once in August. And there are 3 Psalms selected to memorize along with your Bible reading. I will be following this plan as well.

Why am I reading through Psalms so much this summer? Well, I have actually dedicated the last 3 summers to studying the Psalms exclusively in my quiet times and Bible readings. It has been so encouraging to really dig deeply into this book of the Bible throughout the summertime months. I also realized that when I use the Bible Reading Challenge plan throughout the year, I am only reading a Psalm here or there along with another passage. I believe the book of Psalms should be read in order and studied that way. So when I have the extra time in the summer, I read through the Psalms chapter by chapter… and it’s amazing!

I’d love for you to join me in reading through the Psalms this summer. I will need accountability as I am going to have a newborn this summer! So please click over to my blog at my bio link and download the free Bible reading plan for the Psalms of the Summer. Print it and stick it in your Bible to start reading on June 1st with me, that's Thursday! 💕
    39 weeks and 5 days! 😍 This is actually the lon 39 weeks and 5 days! 😍 This is actually the longest I've been pregnant because my daughter came at 39 weeks. I am so looking forward to having a newborn again. But at the same time, I've done it before and I know how hard it is! 🫠 

One thing that has always helped me when mom life becomes more demanding is reading my Bible daily. So, for this summer, I put together a new Bible Reading plan that I'll be following and it's available on my blog now for you too! Having a plan printed on paper in my Bible is the best option for me, but what about you? How do you stay in your Bible when you have so much going on as a mother? Let me know in the comments! 😀
    "Finding your tribe" is overrated. When I lived ba "Finding your tribe" is overrated.
When I lived back in Los Angeles, I had one mom friend in particular who agreed with me on pretty much everything (I think the sole exception was headcovering). We were often texting each other about what first foods we’d give our babies and what non-toxic baby products we found at cheap prices. It was great! There was a certain ease that came with being friends simply because we agreed and enjoyed a lot of the same things. When I moved here to England, I found that the fastest and easiest way to make new friends was through my church. Both because it was a new place and because we moved when there were still covid restrictions and church was one of the only things we could go to. Now, that means that I have become friends with lots of different people at church who have lots of different viewpoints in parenting and life. 

I’ve learned that being a good mom friend should not always be about finding the moms that will agree with you on everything. It’s about finding the moms who also love Jesus and live for Him and letting that connect you instead. Now, don’t get me wrong, it is a lot of fun to bond over things like sourdough bread, or co-sleeping, or flower-arranging, or being a traditional wife/homemaker.. But how much more impactful is it to bond over things like worshiping Sunday by Sunday together, praying for one another during the week, studying Scripture together at Bible study, and encouraging each other to keep serving the Lord? 

All the trends that we enjoy that bind us together could never bind us together like our bond in Christ. He’s the one who causes us to live together in harmony and builds beautiful friendships among His people. 

So, finding your tribe is overrated. Go out and find your local church and get connected there instead.

Galatians 3:26-28, “For you are all sons and daughters of God through faith in Christ Jesus. For all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus."
    Okay, here’s what I’ve been thinking in regard Okay, here’s what I’ve been thinking in regard to the #tradwife movement as I’ve seen it here on Instagram. 

Comparison is a thief of joy. As with any trend, we see it and want to make it happen in our own life and home. Now, don’t get me wrong, I actually do a lot of the things that would be considered part of the #tradwife trend… cook everything from scratch, wear pretty, floral dresses, take walks with my child, homeschool, etc... I mean, most of my time right now is literally spent pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen! While all of those things are good and there’s no problem with doing them, they are not the end-all be-all of being a good mother or homemaker. We must look back to the Scripture for definitions of both womanhood and motherhood (and even homemaker-hood from Proverbs 31!). Remember that 1 Peter 3 lays out our role as wives pretty well and it doesn’t have distinctions like what our kitchens or our outfits should specifically look like (except being modest, of course). It says, “In the same way, you wives, be subject to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won over without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they observe your pure and respectful behavior. Your adornment must not be merely the external–braiding the hair, wearing gold jewelry, or putting on apparel; but it should be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.”

So, don’t compare your life so much to what you see online that you feel unhappy with what God has given you. You are not any less of a good homemaker or wife because you have a rental kitchen with a pink wall and very modern cabinets instead of open, wood shelving and a collection of brass pots. As long as you are living your life according to the Scriptures, then you are doing what the Lord has called you to do and that should bring you joy.

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What have you thought about this traditional wife movement? I have another post coming after this, so look for it!
    I came to the realization that even if it did happ I came to the realization that even if it did happen again, if I did lose this baby too, God would still be faithful. I have already walked that road with Him two times and I can do it again in His faithfulness. Of course, it would be sad. But I trust God. He knows whether or not I need to hold this baby in my arms or only in my womb. So, instead of letting my heart worry, I purposed to rejoice in His kindness to give me another baby for however long He wills. 

Isaiah 40:11 helps me when I have anxious thoughts. It says, “Like a shepherd He [God] will tend His flock, In His arm He will gather the lambs and carry them in His bosom; He will gently lead the nursing lambs.” God has tender care for us moms, He knows what we deal with in each pregnancy. And that truth tells me that should the worst happen in my life, whatever it may be, God will carry me in His arms, He will be faithful.

I love the Old Testament book of Lamentations. It is a very sad and chaotic book. The Israelites are being afflicted, their enemies are overtaking them, and it seems as if there is no hope. But right in the middle of the whole book, in the chaos, it says in Lamentations 3:21-24, “This I recall to my mind, therefore I have hope. The Lord’s lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, for His compassions never fail, they are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness. ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘Therefore I have hope in Him.’”

In the middle of the chaos in our lives, in the times when we just have storm after storm, we can still have hope. God’s lovingkindness is there and He is faithful.

Even if we never have another child after loss or never have children at all, God is faithful. We’re not promised a certain number of kids in Scripture, but we are promised that God is for us and not against us, that Jesus gave His life for us, and so much more. So we can trust God and His faithfulness. I’m so thankful that it’s not dependent on what happens in my life. He will be faithful with or without a “rainbow baby.”

So, I won’t be calling this baby my rainbow baby, but I will be constantly so grateful for this new baby, it is more than anything I could ever deserve. 💕
    The term “rainbow baby” describes babies who a The term “rainbow baby” describes babies who are born after the mother has lost a previous pregnancy or multiple pregnancies. They are supposed to be a symbol of the “beauty that comes after a storm.” 

There is also the more Christian definition from the story of Noah. God sent a rainbow after the worldwide flood as a sign of His promise to never flood the earth again in such a way. And maybe we should read Genesis 6 over more often because I have found this Christian definition rather problematic when we think of it in light of what the Bible says.

When we read the story of Noah in the Bible and when we picture it in our head, we think of Noah and his family in the ark with the animals, the rain coming, and then, once the waters subside, the world being beautiful and happy, lush and green, the perfect place to live. 

Now, I’m sure that the vegetation under the water from the flood was green and growing when Noah and his family came off the ark. But the reality of the situation after the flood is that the earth would’ve been covered in the remains of death. The flood killed everyone and everything that wasn’t on the ark. All those bodies and debris were still somewhere. So, there probably was grass growing, but growing with the signs of destruction and chaos everywhere.

When Noah and his family stepped off the ark, they didn’t immediately give offerings to God in worship because of beauty. They did it because they had been miraculously saved from the destruction that surrounded them. So God gave Noah the sign of the rainbow to show His faithfulness in preserving His people. Noah and his family could continue looking for the seed who would crush the serpent’s head that God promised in Genesis 3:15 because they were alive and not killed in the flood.

So, the flood was not just any other storm and I think it is not wise to compare the hard things in our lives, the storms as we call them, to the flood that totally destroyed the world. The sign of the rainbow in the Bible is much, much more than simply the beauty after a storm. It is God’s covenant faithfulness on display to His people after a horribly needed judgment on the entire planet.
    Going to the hospital for an ultrasound has felt r Going to the hospital for an ultrasound has felt really strange! Back in LA my doctor would do one in her little office to check on the baby. Here in Oxford, they're all done in the hospital... Which is usually the place to avoid!  I had my last one yesterday and everything looks great, praise God! That means I won't be back at the hospital again if all goes to plan because... I'm going to have a homebirth this time! 😍

The midwives here in England actually encourage you to have a homebirth if possible. They see better outcomes for mom and baby and it keeps the hospitals open for those who really need it. I've really enjoyed my midwife and her approach to pregnancy and birth. 

Did you have a homebirth? Leave me any tips in the comments below! 💕🤱
    As mothers, we can trust that God knows all the da As mothers, we can trust that God knows all the days of our children, even if they were only a few days or weeks in our wombs. Praise Him for His faithfulness to us in the difficult times of raising babies! 💕
    So, this current pregnancy is actually my 4th preg So, this current pregnancy is actually my 4th pregnancy. I have one daughter who is 5-years-old and then I had two pregnancies after her that ended in very early miscarriage.

One thing I’ve learned from having miscarriages is this: 

every life, no matter how long, should be known and celebrated. 

I only knew about my two other babies for a few short days before they were gone. Those two little lines on the pregnancy tests told me they were there, but then they were gone before the first ultrasound. 

But as their mama, those little lives are still precious to me. They still lived and they were little persons for those days that they lived. And I know that those lives are precious to God because He created them.

In both of my miscarriage experiences, God showed Himself to be faithful. But in looking back, I now see the need to tell other people early on about pregnancy and I wish I had done that then.

There’s a certain assurance in telling other people you are pregnant that I really needed. Not assurance that the pregnancy is going to go through without a problem. But assurance that your friends, church, and family will be there for you if it doesn’t.

This time around, I did tell people a lot earlier on. No, it wasn’t a big announcement on social media with a cute onesie. But I texted my family and in-laws. And then I also texted the ladies at my church, telling them I had just found out and asking them to pray because I have had miscarriages before. Those messages back from family and friends were nothing special, they mostly said, “Congratulations! We’re praying for you!” But those simple words were profoundly encouraging. They knew about this little life that I had inside and they were part of it with me, for worse or for better. And, I knew that they would be praying alongside me for this pregnancy and baby.
    Yesterday I spent the whole afternoon at a garden Yesterday I spent the whole afternoon at a garden centre. It was chock full of beauty. The plants, the seed packets, the tools, the bird houses… you name it, it was beautiful. 

But as I looked at the beautiful plants, potted with compost and some towering high, I was a bit sad and felt like I was missing out. One of the joys of cultivating a beautiful back garden (or an allotment!) would be to buy a big bush plant and settle it in, enjoying it year after year. For me, as someone who is most likely moving within the next year to who knows where, I won’t get that year-after-year return on the work I’m doing right now in my garden. Though I was feeling sad, I said to myself, "wait a minute!" I have plenty of ways to invest and enjoy in my garden right now without waiting for the year-after-year return. I can sow lettuces or radishes and harvest them within a month. I can plant flower seeds and they'll grow and bloom by July. And, so what if I'm not here year after year to enjoy it? It's still nice while I can be here!

And that little lesson from the garden centre also applies to other areas of my life as I live in places briefly, especially when it comes to friendships. I can sometimes be led to think that it’s not worth the effort to make friends or get to know people when we will be moving on to another place shortly. But that is not true! The investment and work in friendships, even for a short time, is worth it. It is beautiful to get to know new people and love and serve alongside them, or serve them directly. That brings glory to God, even if there’s not a year-after-year return in store for me. And, with an eternal perspective, we will have year after year after year of return on our investments in God's Kingdom. Using our time to love and serve others is never a waste.

1 Corinthians 15:55 says that we should “excel in the work of the Lord, knowing that our labor is not in vain in the Lord.”
    Living abroad has definitely been an adventure! I Living abroad has definitely been an adventure! I had so many ideas of what I thought England would be like before moving here. It's actually pretty beautiful. ❤️ And I can't wait to enjoy the British summer again this year! 😎

Do you like the summertime better than other seasons? ☀️⛱️🌊
    Just in case you need to hear it today: ✨Nothi Just in case you need to hear it today: 

✨Nothing will replace reading the actual Bible to your children. ✨

There are many good children's Bibles and books out there and they can be very helpful. But nothing, absolutely nothing, will take the place of reading the actual Words of Life to your child/children.

We had some silliness during this morning's reading. As I told my daughter that we need to be reverent when reading the Bible she, of course, asked why. And I said, "Because these are God's Words!" What a blessing to read them and know them. 

May they be precious to you today, friends. ❤️

Psalm 119:18 "Open my eyes, that I may behold wonderful things from Your law."
    "There is no death of sin without the death of Chr "There is no death of sin without the death of Christ." -- John Owen

And that, my friends, is why today is called Good Friday, for it is good indeed.
    32 weeks! 🥹 In some ways I can't believe we've 32 weeks! 🥹 In some ways I can't believe we've made it this far and in other ways it's feels like I've been pregnant for a very long time. Each day has its own challenges and worries. Which is why I'm so thankful that Jesus said, "Do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." And to instead: "Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness." Here's to seeking God's kingdom and righteousness in the 8ish weeks I have left!

(Matthew 6:34-35)
    Does God know all things? Yes, God knows all thing Does God know all things? Yes, God knows all things, nothing can be hidden from God. 

This catechism question could fill us with fear... "God knows all about my son!"
But lately it has filled me with hope and comfort. God knows what I experience each and every day. He knows my deepest pain or my brightest joy. He knows my every fleeting feeling from every single moment that I've ever lived. And He holds me under the shadow of His wing. (Psalm 17:8). ❤️
    After reading his commentaries almost daily for th After reading his commentaries almost daily for the last few years, you can see from this picture how happy I was to visit John Calvin's Church in Geneva this week! 😍
    Happy New Year from us! I am definitely looking f Happy New Year from us! 
I am definitely looking forward to what 2023 will hold for our growing fam. ❤️ And striving to look forward to THE new beginning to come. John Calvin said, "No man has made much progress in the school of Christ who does not look forward with joy to the day of death and final resurrection."
    It has been over two years since I laid on a medic It has been over two years since I laid on a medical bed with the ultrasound wand on my stomach to see what was inside. The last two times brought heartbreak as I saw the empty screens confirming the loss of two little babies I only carried for a few weeks each.

But yesterday? That screen was full. 
We're expecting a baby in May 2023.

This pregnancy has already been really different from my first one with my daughter. That is why you haven’t heard from me! I’ve definitely been in survival mode from the nausea and exhaustion. But, of course, I am so thankful for this little one that God has given. I know we often use Job’s famous line when we lose something, but it has been ringing in my head throughout this pregnancy so far:

“The Lord GIVES and the Lord takes away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” Job 1:21
    We've lived as expats in Oxford for almost 2 years We've lived as expats in Oxford for almost 2 years. Coming home from holiday truly felt like coming home. I love Oxford. What a challenging, exciting, and enjoyable chapter of life it is turning out to be. And what a grace from God because I could not have been brave enough to do it without Him. 💗
    Our August thus far. This one is just for the memo Our August thus far.
This one is just for the memories. ❤️
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